Aging Parents

Clear-sighted Planning

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I want to share a story of a couple that is approaching the next season of their lives with a refreshingly prudent look at their coming years. When they left our office, I felt inspired and couldn’t help but think that if more adults would look at their aging rationally while they were young enough to really see the road ahead, how much better off so many families would be.

The marketplace is flooded with advertisements for products which claim to ...

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Are You a Senior? Celebrate!

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The secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age. – Lucille Ball

Sage advice.

My mother lied about her age starting in the 1940s. Her sister was four years older, and had started lying about her age, and all of a sudden, my Aunt Marianna was younger than my mother, so my mother began lying to keep up. When my mom was 89, she had a “special friend,” a lovely man who was 91. “He ...

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Caregiving for Loved Ones – Life Care Professionals are a Beacon of Hope

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This heartbreaking article, ‘Invisible workforce’ of caregivers is wearing out as boomers age, is devastatingly accurate. I – and many of my clients – have had to make similar, difficult choices.

Many adults find it necessary to reduce their working hours and rearrange their lives in order to care for ill or aging loved ones. This is an incredible strain, emotionally, financially, physically, and mentally. There are no breaks or time off. To juggle work and other family obligations with ...

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Vietnam Veterans: You and your spouse may be eligible for VA Aid and Attendance Benefits

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The 50th anniversary of the Vietnam War will be commemorated in Orlando, Florida on April 5, 2018.

My husband is a Vietnam veteran. As we remember his service and thank him and other veterans for their sacrifices, I want to highlight a relatively unknown Veteran’s Administration benefit program called Aid and Attendance.

Many Vietnam vets or spouses of Vietnam vets need assistance with daily tasks, personal care, medical bills and ...

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Test-driving FindaRideFlorida.com

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A new website from the Florida Department of Transportation’s Safe Mobility for Life Program, www.FindaRideFlorida.com, is designed to offer solutions to aging adults (and others) who have given up their car keys. Listings feature information on whether door-to-door service is offered, and if vehicles have wheelchair accessibility.

Your Caring Law Firm took FindaRideFlorida.com for a test drive today. Here is what we found.

The biggest advantage of this site is ...

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Celebrate Mom by Talking with Her about Her Future

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Mother’s Day is approaching.  How are you planning to celebrate Mom this year?

Flowers always are a safe bet. Perhaps you and your siblings could create a photo album enjoying years of gatherings.  Maybe you could take your whole family out to brunch, or have a spa day with her.

Best yet, offer Mom the most meaningful gift of all – two conversations about her future.  First, what plans does she have for herself?  Second, what role does she foresee ...

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Asking Tough Questions Could Save an Older Driver’s Life

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The crash statistics are alarming. Nearly 4,200 seniors age 70 or over died in automobile crashes nationwide in 2012, according to a report by transportation research group TRIP. The report also found that Florida leads the nation in the number of senior citizens killed in traffic accidents.

As greater numbers of retirees move into Florida and as the existing population continues to age, each of us has a responsibility to our loved one to determine whether he or ...

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The Holiday Turkey Is in the… Dishwasher? Top 10 Warning Signs Your Elders May Need Help

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Elderly parents often try to disguise cognitive decline. The Thanksgiving holiday provides an opportunity for families to spot signs of incapacity in aging parents.

Publix has the greatest holiday television commercials, doesn’t it?  They evoke love, warmth, family and wonderful meals. You can’t wait to visit home.

This year, get a feel for how your elderly loved ones really are doing.  They may be disguising fading capacity behind a cheerful façade.  You might not be privy to the results of Mom’s latest ...

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Thanksgiving Holiday Provides Opportunity for Family Members to Spot Signs of Incapacity in Aging Parents

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Spotting signs of incapacity and early detection of cognitive decline enables professional advisors to more effectively address financial, legal and care-giving concerns.

More than 40 million Americans are expected to take to the roadways, railways and airways as they head home for the Thanksgiving holiday. Thanksgiving – one of the few occasions when multiple generations gather under one roof – is an opportune time for adult children to observe signs of incapacity or cognitive decline in aging loved ones.

My advice to ...

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